I fell your pain at the dinner table Pres...I to stick my foot in my mouth way to many times during conversations with the boy who is 15 & 2/3rds when the wife is around. I would let him at 18, I figure if he is old enough to go to war and die for his country then he is old enough to have a cigar but with me and with him paying for them....LOL My son knows me and his moms past all to well, I do not worry about the cigarrets and I do detour him from it but we have to watch our conversations with his mom around and between us and the fence post here on FOH, I have already let him taste one....don't tell his mother though or I will not be able to purchase cigars for a while due to the fact of paying for my new home that I would be moving to.....lol
One last thing, if it is not me teaching or how do I say, "corrupting him" as the wife would say it, it is his grandfather doing it.....